perempuan yang baik untuk lelaki yang baik

aku rajin plak surfing skang ni, cari good read. ntah camne aku leh jumpa mende ni, tubelawak, banyak video lawak sebenarnya. pastu jumpa huraian pasal ni. aku rase interesting.

so, kesimpulannya kalo ko keje pegi clubbing, mestila ko akan end up dengan orang yang pegi clubbing gak. unless tetiba ko insaf dan pegi masjid untuk solat terserempak dengan imam muda yang ensem yang sudi nak jadikan ko bini.

memang jodoh itu di tangan Tuhan, tapi kalo ko end up dengan orang yang jahat, dah jadi tanggungjawab ko untuk tarik dia ke arah kebaikan. segala apa yang kita buat ada akibat, so tepuk dada tanya iman.

ok, dah start merepek, gi bace ye. =)

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something to ponder upon

while i was browsing around to kill time read something, i came upon this thoughtful read from one of the blogs that i follow.

it gave a new perspective to marriage, like a fresh breath after colgate, haha.

dedicated to all of my single friends, we rock!

so, please click on the link and read it, especially the girl who made me stay up late, watched call-girls and overdosing on java chips at pavillion. :P

insecurities

last week had been a very taxing one. i had to deal with a very bad hangover, and i didn't even consume alcohol for that matter, lol. but a night of ODing on java chips really took its toll on me. 3 days were enough to turn me into a restless being. geez, i didn't know caffeine and sugar could make me have the worst hangover, ever. T_T

on the other hand, i started to deal with a lot of things at the same time. work-related, life-related. somehow, i tend to view a lot of things differently. not entirely new, but something worth to ponder on.

i might not reveal all that happened here, i would have wanted to, if i have the right words and courage, which i don't at the moment. coz it would involve telling every detail, which i'm not comfortable with for now as i need to sort things out, which one's important, which one's not. ok, enough with this debate telling and not telling crap. been having that since day 1, duh. i'll tell when i felt like it. considering the way things are going, it might be sooner than i thought.

surprising myself, i guess.

guide to a better life

taken from here who took it from someplace else. =)

Personality

1. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment

3. Don't over do, keep your limits

4. Don't take yourself so seriously, no one else does

5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip

6. Dream more while you are awake

7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..

8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.

10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present

11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you

12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

13. Smile and laugh more

14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.


Community

15. Call your family often

16. Each day give something good to others

17. Forgive everyone for everything

18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6

19. Try to make at least three people smile each day

20. What other people think of you is none of your business

21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.


Life

22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do. This is our priority in life

23. GOD heals everything

24. Do the right things

25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change

26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up

27. The best is yet to come

28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful

29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it

30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

funny strip

this strip made my day, considering that i am an avid flyer and dreamt of sitting beside the pilot / in the cockpit.

have a nice day everyone. can't wait for my next flyaway!

quote of the day

i am the girl

that everybody likes

but

nobody wants.

so, the quest begins to search for my nobody. =)

On t0p of the world!

Nuff said.

my precious

i was telling my bff about the things i've been going through these past few months. being my usual bubbly and comical self, telling serious stuffs jokingly. when i finished talking with that casual smirk, my bff cupped my face in both hands and told me this,

" i love you so much. "

if it was done by a guy i liked, i would've gone to cloud 9. how sweet that would be.

but my bff is a girl, someone i treasured so much. we've been through the good and the bad times, together, through our lowest and highest. when she told me that, i felt euphoric and blissfully happy. that it doesn't matter if the world turn against me, as long as i have her and people who matters with me.

and i might not be my usual self these days, i think i am more annoying, but now i realized that these people love me. that i might not stop and thought about it, but now as i do, i am going to appreciate life more.

as i have these people to live for. look around, love is waiting. it might not be from the person you hoped for, but look harder, it might be closer than you think.

on being ruthless

once he asked me, would i go out with him if he's thinner? i told him i would give it a thought, if he loses his boroiness.

so, a few months after that question, he asked me when are we going out, as i was about to leave the table full of his friends. i blurted blatantly,

" you tak kurus lagi. "

to a table full of laughter. oh my, i felt bad after that, hahahaha.

it's not that i'm making physical outlook (read: body size) a priority like i did on spoken english or tallness, but it's just a matter or preference. like between coffee or tea.

the funny thing is, i used to tell one of the many scandals this:

" kalo you kurus, i tinggalkan you. serius. "

which left him dumb-founded. whoever heard of thin people getting dumped, he said. i answered him with this,

" kurus tak sedap peluk. "

i still guffaw whenever i thought about this.

ok, now you know what my preferences are of the other gender. i blame those mangas and mills&booon. hehe.

something nice

this is actually the satellite view of GMI student hostel in bangi. i was astounded. it is actually oval. i was complaining when the road was veering to corners while driving there, but it is exactly a geometric / architectural beauty. perfect.

bila hati tiada

when you don't have the heart,

even the things that you love the most will take a ginormous effort to be done.

i miss my cookie monster. :( no, he's just one of those people i appreciated, not my significant other. i am still looking, hehehe. :P

and yes, i don't have the heart to write now. it takes too much effort plus i still need that pensieve to sort the thoughts out.

i will write proper, soon. i hope. =)